A Total – Notre Dame – Eclipse Of The Heart

Blood Moon

A couple nights ago the moon turned red. It was deemed a “blood moon” by the mainstream media. Thanks to a cloudy night in Columbus, I was unable to view it from the sky but the internet came through as it usually does, and allowed me to catch the rare occurrence. The next total lunar eclipse? October 8, 2033. Hopefully, I’ll be three days away from turning 48.

Two things make the lunar eclipse special. One, it looks absolutely amazing. Words do not do it justice. Two, it’s incredibly rare. It happened five times in the 1900s. Let me repeat, five times, in one-hundred years. You would be lucky to see it four times in your entire life.

There’s no surprises with the lunar eclipse as we know when the next one will be. It’s something calculable. There’s no guesswork involved. We don’t wake up one day, hoping to see another “blood moon.”

There’s something peaceful about that notion, of knowing EXACTLY when the next rare occurrence will take place. Most other things in life don’t work that way. They leave us guessing, waiting, hoping. It fosters an atmosphere of anxiety because sometimes even DURING a rare occurrence our brains are wondering if we’ll ever see this again. Talk about not living in the moment.

An upcoming “moment” will take place Saturday night when Notre Dame travels down South to visit the Clemson Tigers. Both teams enter undefeated, and only one will leave that way.

Notre Dame v. Clemson

I started following Notre Dame football seriously in 1993. I was eight. In the 20+ years since, I’ve experienced five games when both Notre Dame and their opponent were undefeated after two weeks of football.

Last week I talked about appreciation, and how I hoped to do more of it. Well, this week we’ll take a look back at those five games and then a look ahead to the sixth against Clemson tomorrow night. All the while, trying to learn to appreciate things as they happen.

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The Art of Appreciation

An old saying goes, “you never know what you have, until it’s gone.” Through the first 29 years of my life, I’ve come to find truth in that.

But does it have to be that way? Why can’t we enjoy things as we are experiencing them? Is it because we are too focused on the destination, and not the journey? Or could it be because we take things for granted too often?

Whatever the reason may be, and it certainly could be a combination of those things, as I’m rapidly approaching the big 3-0, I’ve tried to teach myself the art of appreciation. To simply enjoy things as they come. To not take anything for granted. To be more grateful.

It’s an incredibly tough and challenging to do. For instance, a few weeks ago I was rooting for Jordan Spieth to win the British Open which would have been his third straight major. He ended up falling one shot short and my immediate reaction was complete disappointment. And that reaction, is a clear failure to appreciate.

I was too caught up in the destination – of Spieth winning the first three golf majors of the year – that I lost sight of the journey. I lost sight of how awesome it was to watch someone have that opportunity, that I let the ending/result ruin the entire experience.

Next week the Notre Dame Fighting Irish will be playing the Clemson Tigers on ABC in primetime. Both football teams should be in the top-ten and both should be undefeated. The atmosphere in Death Valley will be completely electric. And yes, I will be passionately rooting for Notre Dame to win, but if they don’t, I will try my best not to be disappointed. Wish me luck.

With that thought in mind, I decided to unveil a rather unique list.

Top Ten People Whose Deaths Would Affect Me The Most

Rather morbid right?
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Serial-ly Obsessed

It was complete luck. A happy accident. Some would call it chance, others might choose destiny.

The “it” I’m talking about?

Serial. My latest obsession.
Serial
We’ll come back to Serial in a bit, but first I wanted to touch base on the concept of “obsession.” What it is, what it means, and is it healthy?

Before sitting down to write this I racked my brain to try and think back to my very first obsession. What was the first thing that completely hooked my brain? The first thing I couldn’t get enough of? And to be honest, I struggled for quite some time coming up with the answer.
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A Season Worth of Season Openers

Statistics can often be misleading. They can be a tool used only to illuminate opinion. But every once in a while a stat comes up that transcends opinion. It sheds light on the entire story – not just one side’s view.

For the Cleveland Browns it’s this transcendent stat … 1-15 in season openers the last 16 years.

Think about that for a second. Bask in how undeniably awful it is.

Sixteen season openers, one win. Fourteen times they had home games to start a season – one win.

Here’s some other fun numbers just to warm everyone up.

– The Browns have scored more than 20 points in just one season opener, and of course, lost that game.

– The Browns have failed to score a single touchdown three times and you guessed it, all losses.

– Surprisingly, the Browns have also held their opponent out of the end-zone three times as well, but still managed to lose two of those.

– Three times, the Browns opened the season against the Pittsburgh Steelers and Cleveland has been outscored 107-34 … yes, that is not a misprint.

As we get ready to embark on another action-packed Cleveland Browns season, let’s take a trip down memory lane at the previous 16 season openers. Continue reading “A Season Worth of Season Openers”